First thing to understand if you are experiencing same gender attraction is that it is not your fault. However there are a number of ways by which this can develop such as:
- Sexual abuse in childhood or anytime
- Bad experiences with the opposite gender
- Over-indulgence in pornography or sexual activities.
- Experimentation or lack of opportunity with opposite gender
- Gay/Lesbian pornography
A thorough background study of an individual’s life will reveal reasons or roots due to which the person has transformed from their opposite gender attraction to same the gender. This can be changed through different means like re-orientation therapy, prayer, counselling etc.
There are a few important facts to remember regarding homosexuality which will shed light into its true nature:
You are not born gay or lesbian- you were born male or female as indicated in your genetic make-up. This transition that occurred during the experiences of life, usually in the adolescent age can be reversed later on. The very documented fact that it can be reversed shows it isn’t innate.
2. Whether you believe in God or in Evolution, either ways homosexuality is unnatural. God created male and female to procreate and evolution is based on Natural Selection which selects what breeds the most. Since a homosexual couple can never produce children, it is unnatural
Same gender sexual relationship is out of lust, not love. But opposite gender relationship not is only love but it creates life by turning that love into babies.